December 2025

December 2025 Updates

Happy December!​

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It is truly the most joyous time of the year. The holiday 2025 season is here! To me, celebrating the holidays (in my case, Christmas) reminds me of the importance of community, and the overwhelming feeling of joy in a time when the whole feels like a dark tunnel with no light in sight. From the sparkling, twinkling lights to the delicious, fragrant scent of freshly baked cookies, this time of year touches my heart and my inner child. As we wind down and say goodbye to 2025, I want to quickly reflect that this year has been the eye-opening year to date. Revisiting the experience of grief, shedding old parts of myself (lifestyle, feelings/thoughts, and individuals that do not serve me anymore), and discovering my identity in and out of the industry was not on my bingo card for this year. However, I feel like these experiences needed to happen for me. I have enjoyed my time in this industry and have gotten to know some exceptional individuals along the way. I want to thank those reading these newsletters (including this one) and showing love in many different ways. Without you all, I would not be here and in the position that I am in today. To those that I have met in person, I have enjoyed every moment during our time together and look forward to what 2026 has in store for us. 

Business/Travel updates:

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For the remainder of 2025, I have decided to accept bookings primarily in Stamford, CT. For my clients based in New York City, I will continue to receive new and returning clients who wish to prebook two or more hours of my time. Please inquire via email or the booking form to secure a spot on my calendar for December 2025. ​​

Regarding Chicago, I have finalized my arrangements for my last visit to the Windy City next week (12/08-12/11)! I will still be hosting in Downtown Chicago this time around, as it is convenient and accessible. For my Chicago-suburb clients, I will make exceptions for hosting if requested. This upcoming visit will be more of a personal one this holiday season. My availability will be available only to extended and prebooked bookings. ​

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I am still accepting prebookings in Chicago proper, as well as outcalls in the Chicago suburbs/metro areas for Rosemont/O'Hare, Evanston, Cicero, Oak Park, Arlington Heights,  Elmhurst, Schuamburg & South Chicago. Extended bookings (two hours or more) are preferred; shorter bookings are accepted on a case-by-case basis. This upcoming visit will be my last for 2025, so seize this opportunity while you can! 

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For my Atlanta gentlemen, I will be making a sporadic appearance in Atlanta for another personal visit at the end of December (12/29-1/01). With that said, I have availability for an extended date or two during my time in Hotlanta! The last time I was in Atlanta was back in 2018 (yes, baby Erica was in full effect!), and unfortunately, my time there was... not the best, to say the least. If you're interested in meeting me, please reach out; I would love to meet you there. Maybe you can convince that Atlanta does love the St. James experience *wink wink*

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My  travel schedule is as follows: ​​​​​​​

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Winter 2025

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Chicago, IL: 12/08-12/11 *Last visit of 2025!*

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Atlanta, GA: 12/29-1/01 (Extremely limited!)

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*I am accepting prebookings for all cities mentioned.

** Prebookings with enough interest will determine visit confirmation​

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Personal updates:

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Starting January 1st, I will be taking a break from in-person work and will return late March with a return visit to Washington, DC. I will also be looking into other hobbies and interests during this time. If you would like to fund my new hobbies/pursuits or let me know you're thinking of me during my time off, my YouPay & CashApp will remain open.

I will only honor bookings from returning/consistent clients in the Stamford, CT & NYC metro areas (including visiting clients). I will be available via text message and email periodically. If you would like to schedule a booking in that timeframe, you know where to find me.

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Social Media updates:

Towards the end of November 2025, after three years (to the date) of rebuilding my social media presence on Twitter/X/X from my previous account at 48.6K, I was unjustly deleted at 13.5K, along with many of my mutuals. This alarming occurrence of workers being permanently kicked off of X has been happening throughout November, in a manner I have never experienced before. I created a backup X account (@dreamofericaxo) to reconnect with lovers and mutuals near and far (which I highly recommend following as a backup). 

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As of December 4th, I have my main X account (@meeterica__xo) fully restored after appealing my suspension for the second time. While this situation turned out in my favor, it is only a matter of time before the other shoe drops.

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Due to this occurrence, I will be diversifying how you can stay up to date on my travel dates and other business/personal updates. I will be creating a Telegram group and slowly starting a Substack. In that way, you can follow me wherever I go to get your Erica fix. 

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I will still be on Instagram, BlueSky Social, and Snapchat if those platforms are comfortable for you to keep up with me. Until then, what I will say is subscribe to the newsletter and keep my contact information close (for returning clients).